I talk to myself. A lot. My thoughts narrate my life, “breaking news” stories about the events of my day. Thoughts are not “facts” but they aren’t really lies either, maybe we could ask Trump what to call them. We think thoughts because we are humans, and humans are cursed with self awareness. ”Dogs don’t “think”, but it sure seems they are smarter than a lot of humans I know. What scares me is I believe most of what I tell myself!! My self- fulfilling prophecies never seem to lead me to happiness.
Very little is needed to make a happy life, it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. Marcus Aurelius
It seems to me that thoughts are tyrants. This is the way it is—I am a loser, not smart enough and not that pretty. There is no bipartisan vote, the party in power, founded in my childhood, votes strictly along party lines. All the negative feedback and traumas in my life have control of my headspace. I need to begin questioning my assumptions… like erasing a blackboard and starting over. I can evict the damaging messages I give to myself and create some space for self-affirming messages.
We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them. Albert Einstein
When I think of Albert Einstein I think “Wow, give me some of his thoughts to think!” Einstein was a daydreamer and it is reported that he could visualize his theories first and then put words to them. My thoughts can get in the way of my experiencing. Thinking about eating a good meal is not the same as eating it! When I am engaging in obsessive thinking I am not “experiencing” the moment, I am wasting my time “figuring out” life instead of living it. Creative thinking is the mind at play in the moment. I want to play more!
Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t ….you’re right. Henry Ford
The little train that chanted “I think I can, I think I can.” made it up the hill. I doubt the little train would have got up the hill chanting “I can’t do it, I can’t do it.” I was able to quit smoking because my mind was truly made up, no discussion allowed. My thoughts served me, not the other way around. The truth is I can talk myself into good behavior or bad behavior, so choosing my thoughts carefully is a heavy responsibility. Exercise is good for the mind and the body and so is rest. Self care can promote “I Can!” Are you a cheerleader for yourself or are you booing yourself?
Thinking: the talking of the soul within itself. Plato
Leave it to the ancient teachers to define thinking in such a profound and true way. I like the word “soul” much better than the word “brain” especially when photos of the brain illustrate the word. That still quiet voice that tells us which way to go and what is truth must come from the soul.what do you have to say for yourself?
Think about it!